ways people are
I think that when you get to know someone, there are three levels of them to get to know.
the first is everything they like. all their favourite movies, music, books, etc. their “favs”. these can change at any moment.
the second is a bit deeper. these things slowly change over time. one must really know the person to find these out and see them change.
the third level contains the things that never change. they are the opinions and lifestyle of the person. They are what the person truly is, and one must know another person a long time to find them out.