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Earlier this month, I was hanging out with some of my friends and we got into the discussion about labels. You know - punk, goth, prep, etc. The girl that started the discussion (lets call her Steph) had said that she wore studded bracelets to school one day, and a guy in her class asked her if she was punk. Steph went off on the guy for saying this because she want to be considered punk. She wanted to be her. I totally agree with her on this point - people should be themselves, not some pre-processed piece of mainstream junk. After she finished her story, I told her that I agreed. Later on that night, one of my other friends pointed out that I had a stud belt on and that it wasn’t too computer-geekish, and then Steph said “Does he look like a computer geek?” Yes. It was obvious to me then, so I said: “What are you calling me, punk?” If what just happened isn’t obvious to you, I’ll explain: a kid at her school called her punk for having STUD bracelets. I was wearing a STUD belt, and althought she didn’t directly call me punk, she implied it. Seeing as she was just complaining about how she didn’t want to be labeled, her saying this made me very, very, very angry. I chuckled after what I said, but I still meant it. She was doing the exact same thing that she had just said she didn’t like. People, don’t do what you say not to - it ticks others off.